14 Important Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity

Ruth Houston
Sooner or later, everyone who’s married or in a committed relationship will have to deal with the issue of infidelity. Whether you suspect your spouse or significant other of cheating on you or not, here are some important things you should know about signs of infidelity. They may come in handy one day.

Listed below are 14 things about signs of infidelity that even surprise – even to people who consider themselves knowledgeable about infidelity, cheating spouses and extramarital affairs.

1. Telltale signs of infidelity first appear while the infidelity is still in the planning stage. Spotting the signs early on, means you may be able to stop the affair before it starts.

2. Every cheater, male or female, will display subtle signs of infidelity they’re not even aware of, and thus would never think to cover up.

3. The majority of infidelity victims either miss, or misinterpret most of the subtle signs of infidelity that are staring them right in the face. A knowledge of what to look for will keep you from being the last to know.

4. If you know what to look for, you can find countless signs of infidelity using nothing more than your eyes, your ears and your personal knowledge of your spouse or significant other. You don’t really need surveillance equipment or a private investigator to find the telltale signs.

5. Cheating men and women are usually successful at hiding the obvious and most widely known signs of infidelity. It’s the subtle signs of infidelity, the signs most people overlook, that will expose the cheater every time.

6. There are certain signs of infidelity that can help you determine the identity of the Other Woman or Other Man. Knowing what to look for is the key.

7. There are 21 major categories of infidelity signs, each comprised of from 19 to 92 specific telltale signs. For a list describing the 21 categories, e-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “21 categories-ac” in the subject line.

8. If your spouse or significant other is really cheating, you will find clusters of telltale signs from several of the above mentioned 21 categories all at once -- not just a few cheating signs.

9. Where there’s one telltale sign, there are always dozens of other signs of infidelity just waiting to be found. Knowing what to look for is the key.


10. The sooner you spot the signs of infidelity, the better your chances are of saving your marriage -- or of protecting yourself legally and financially in case the infidelity leads to divorce. You can’t afford to be the last to know.

11. Most of the telltale signs of infidelity apply to both cheating women and cheating men.

12. The future of your marriage or relationship will often depend on your ability to spot the telltale signs of infidelity in time.

13. Certain signs of infidelity can give you important details about the affair -- what kind of affair it is, what stage the affair is in, where or how often they meet, how much of a threat the affair poses to your marriage or relationship, and more.

14. A betrayed spouse or significant other who knows what to look for can find signs of infidelity that a private investigator might overlook.

You can safeguard your marriage or relationship by becoming familiar with the signs of infidelity – not just the obvious signs, but the subtle signs, as well. If you’re not sure what to look for, you’ll miss a lot. By the time you find out, it may be too late.

When it comes to signs of infidelity, cheating spouses and extramarital affairs, knowing what to look for is the key. Having a good infidelity reference book in your personal library can help. Of the many infidelity books on the market, Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs is the only one that lists practically every known sign of infidelity. Written by the infidelity expert who founded InfidelityAdvice.com, this book even includes the subtle signs that people usually overlook. Whether you suspect infidelity or not, a knowledge of the signs to look for, and the 14 facts above, may be instrumental in helping you save your marriage or relationship on day. And you’ll never have to suffer the embarrassment or humiliation of being the last to know.

For a FREE tip sheet describing the 21 categories of infidelity signs mentioned in points number 7 and number 8 above, e-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with “21 categories-ac” in the subject line.

2007 Ruth Houston
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Ruth Houston

Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and author of Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs , which lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs most women overlook.

Ruth is frequently called on by the media to comment on popular infidelity issues in the news. She has been quoted in USA Today, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, the New York Post, the Chicago Tribune, Cosmopolitan, Chatelaine, Maclean's, the Toronto Sun, the Houston Chronicle, Newsday, the Miami Herald, the Christian Science Monitor, msnbc.com, Fox News.com, ABC News.com, Crain´s New York Business, MSN Lifestyle, iVillage, Newhouse News Service, UPI, Agence France-Presse, Reuters, Entertainment Online, Univision Online, Visao, the Observer, Flare, the National Post and numerous other print and online media.

She has been a guest on The Today Show, CNN, Fox News, ABC News, NBC News, Telemundo, Ireland´s Late Late Show, BBC, CBC, 1010WINS, Sirius Satellite Radio, PowerTalkFM, Court TV Radio, and over 360 other radio and TV talk shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, New Zealand, Australia and the Caribbean.

For more information about signs of infidelity, cheating husbands, or extramarital affairs -- or to see a list of the FREE infidelity tip sheets available, visit http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com

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