How Christie Brinkley, A-Rodīs Wife and Other Women Get Revenge on their Cheating Mates
Ruth Houston
July 10, 2008
A-Rodīs wife, Cynthia Rodriguez goes on a $100,000 shopping spree in Paris to get revenge on A-Rod (Alex Rodriguez) for his affair of the heart with Madonna.
Christie Brinkley gets accused of pursuing a public divorce trial in order to get revenge on Peter Cook for cheating on her with a teenager less than half his age.
"Itīs natural for a betrayed wife to want to get revenge on her cheating spouse," says Ruth Houston, a New York infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on celebrity infidelity, high profile infidelity court cases, and infidelity issues in the news.
Says Houston, "When the shock and disbelief of being cheated on wears off, the hurt and the anger that follow, are accompanied by a desire for revenge. "
Common Ways Betrayed Wives Get Revenge
Houston, founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, describes some of the common things betrayed wives do to get revenge.
sell, give away, or simply destroy the cheating husbandīs prized possessions - car, boat, golf clubs, power tools, and the like.
go on a shopping spree (like Cynthia Rodriguez, A-Rodīs wife) and run up major debts, or stick her cheating husband with exorbitant credit card bills.
divorce her cheating husband and take the house, car, and the lionīs share of the marital assets.
gain custody of the children and severely limit the cheating husbandīs visitation rights.
embarrass her cheating husband before family, friends or business associates by exposing his secrets like Christie Brinkley is accused of doing to Peter Cook in their public divorce trial.
use her intimate knowledge of her husbandīs secrets to leverage more favorable terms regarding alimony, visitation rights, or division of marital assets jointly owned.
post the cheaterīs name, photo, and identifying information on websites like WomanSavers or DontDateHimGirl.com to warn other women away.
tell the Other Womanīs husband or boyfriend , if she has one, about the affair -- or tell the Other Womanīs family, boss, or religious organization.
engage in revenge cheating by having a retaliatory affair.
Creative Ways Women Get Revenge
Houston, who consults regularly with infidelity victims says, "Some betrayed wives invest a great deal of energy and effort in choosing a form of revenge that will greatly inconvenience their cheating husband or cause him major mental distress. Women can be surprisingly creative when it comes to getting revenge."
"Iīve seen them do some unbelievable things to get even with a cheating mate -- like hiding a dead fish inside the door panel of a cheating husbandīs car, or cutting one cut off one arm from each of the cheating husbandīs business suits, or anonymously phoning in false reports that he has drugs or firearms in his possession or hidden in his car. Iīm truly amazed at some of the things they do."
Warnings about Getting Revenge
Houston has the following warnings for betrayed wives seeking ways to get revenge:
Revenge cheating often has the opposite effect. The cheater may use your retaliatory affair as an excuse to continue cheating on you,
In many cases retaliatory affairs can lead to domestic violence or worse.
Itīs never advisable to break the law to get revenge on a cheating mate. Violent, destructive, or illegal forms of revenge can land you in jail.
Some forms of revenge will destroy whatīs left of your marriage -- an important consideration, if you plan to stay with the cheater, or reconcile with him at a later date.
Getting revenge on a cheating husband who has violent or aggressive tendencies can be a dangerous game. You could end up in the hospital or even worse the grave.
FREE Tip Sheets on How to Legally Get Revenge, or Gain the Upper Hand
Houston says wives with cheating husbands can gain the upper hand without resorting to revenge. There are over a dozen suggestions in her tip sheet entitled How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper Hand. To get a free copy, e-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with Upper Hand-ac in the subject line.
For betrayed wives who are determined to get revenge on their cheating husbands, Houston says there are ways to do it without running afoul of the law. For a free tip sheet on How to Legally or Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Spouse, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with "Revenge Tip Sheet-ac" in the subject line.
For more information on infidelity, cheating spouses and extramarital affairs, visit www.InfidelityAdvice.com or Ruth Houstonīs Infidelity News and Views Blog at http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com
About Ruth Houston:
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, which lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs women usually overlook.
Frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news, Ruth has been quoted in USA Today, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, the New York Daily News, Cosmopolitan, the New York Post, the Chicago Tribune, the Houston Chronicle, the Toronto Sun, Maclean's, iVillage, MSN Lifestyle, FoxNews.com, ABCNews.com, msnbc.com, Reuters, AP, UPI, Hollywood Heat, Entertainment Online and numerous other print and online media.
Ruth has been a guest on The Today Show, CNN, Fox & Friends, The Morning Show with Mike and Juliet, NBC News, BBC, CBC, WCBS, ABC News, Fox News, Court TV Radio, 1010WINS and over 440 other radio and TV talk shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, Australia, New Zealand and the Caribbean.
To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston about infidelity, cheating spouses, and extramarital affairs call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com
Christie Brinkley gets accused of pursuing a public divorce trial in order to get revenge on Peter Cook for cheating on her with a teenager less than half his age.
"Itīs natural for a betrayed wife to want to get revenge on her cheating spouse," says Ruth Houston, a New York infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on celebrity infidelity, high profile infidelity court cases, and infidelity issues in the news.
Says Houston, "When the shock and disbelief of being cheated on wears off, the hurt and the anger that follow, are accompanied by a desire for revenge. "
Common Ways Betrayed Wives Get Revenge
Houston, founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, describes some of the common things betrayed wives do to get revenge.
sell, give away, or simply destroy the cheating husbandīs prized possessions - car, boat, golf clubs, power tools, and the like.
go on a shopping spree (like Cynthia Rodriguez, A-Rodīs wife) and run up major debts, or stick her cheating husband with exorbitant credit card bills.
divorce her cheating husband and take the house, car, and the lionīs share of the marital assets.
gain custody of the children and severely limit the cheating husbandīs visitation rights.
embarrass her cheating husband before family, friends or business associates by exposing his secrets like Christie Brinkley is accused of doing to Peter Cook in their public divorce trial.
use her intimate knowledge of her husbandīs secrets to leverage more favorable terms regarding alimony, visitation rights, or division of marital assets jointly owned.
post the cheaterīs name, photo, and identifying information on websites like WomanSavers or DontDateHimGirl.com to warn other women away.
tell the Other Womanīs husband or boyfriend , if she has one, about the affair -- or tell the Other Womanīs family, boss, or religious organization.
engage in revenge cheating by having a retaliatory affair.
Creative Ways Women Get Revenge
Houston, who consults regularly with infidelity victims says, "Some betrayed wives invest a great deal of energy and effort in choosing a form of revenge that will greatly inconvenience their cheating husband or cause him major mental distress. Women can be surprisingly creative when it comes to getting revenge."
"Iīve seen them do some unbelievable things to get even with a cheating mate -- like hiding a dead fish inside the door panel of a cheating husbandīs car, or cutting one cut off one arm from each of the cheating husbandīs business suits, or anonymously phoning in false reports that he has drugs or firearms in his possession or hidden in his car. Iīm truly amazed at some of the things they do."
Warnings about Getting Revenge
Houston has the following warnings for betrayed wives seeking ways to get revenge:
Revenge cheating often has the opposite effect. The cheater may use your retaliatory affair as an excuse to continue cheating on you,
In many cases retaliatory affairs can lead to domestic violence or worse.
Itīs never advisable to break the law to get revenge on a cheating mate. Violent, destructive, or illegal forms of revenge can land you in jail.
Some forms of revenge will destroy whatīs left of your marriage -- an important consideration, if you plan to stay with the cheater, or reconcile with him at a later date.
Getting revenge on a cheating husband who has violent or aggressive tendencies can be a dangerous game. You could end up in the hospital or even worse the grave.
FREE Tip Sheets on How to Legally Get Revenge, or Gain the Upper Hand
Houston says wives with cheating husbands can gain the upper hand without resorting to revenge. There are over a dozen suggestions in her tip sheet entitled How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper Hand. To get a free copy, e-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with Upper Hand-ac in the subject line.
For betrayed wives who are determined to get revenge on their cheating husbands, Houston says there are ways to do it without running afoul of the law. For a free tip sheet on How to Legally or Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Spouse, e-mail InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with "Revenge Tip Sheet-ac" in the subject line.
For more information on infidelity, cheating spouses and extramarital affairs, visit www.InfidelityAdvice.com or Ruth Houstonīs Infidelity News and Views Blog at http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com
About Ruth Houston:
Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, which lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs women usually overlook.
Frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news, Ruth has been quoted in USA Today, the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, the New York Daily News, Cosmopolitan, the New York Post, the Chicago Tribune, the Houston Chronicle, the Toronto Sun, Maclean's, iVillage, MSN Lifestyle, FoxNews.com, ABCNews.com, msnbc.com, Reuters, AP, UPI, Hollywood Heat, Entertainment Online and numerous other print and online media.
Ruth has been a guest on The Today Show, CNN, Fox & Friends, The Morning Show with Mike and Juliet, NBC News, BBC, CBC, WCBS, ABC News, Fox News, Court TV Radio, 1010WINS and over 440 other radio and TV talk shows in the United States, Canada, Europe, South America, Australia, New Zealand and the Caribbean.
To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston about infidelity, cheating spouses, and extramarital affairs call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com
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