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By John W. Cutter

Based on a 1995 federal study by the National Center for Health Statistics (NCHS), one-third of marriages between young people will end in divorce within the first 10 years and 43 percent in the first 15 years. Making a commitment with these figures can be daunting for a couple. These statistics don´t really take into account the new age we live in with the advent of the internet and people´s ability to develop relationships with individuals from distant places. In years past most people would end up marrying someone who lived within twenty miles of their home town residence. In most instances you would meet your future partner through some common connection and before even a first date would know a lot about them simply through your own family and friends.

In today´s society where people tend to be more transient whether looking for education, work or just a change they often find themselves living in a new city or town with little or no connection to their former locale. They find themselves making new friends and acquaintances knowing very little about those people other than what they see at school, work or a common setting they both frequented such as nightclubs or bars. The old personal intelligence network that was developed over their childhood into adulthood is no longer in tact. In the age of information the internet is another place where people can find relationships over even longer distances and only know what the person on the other end tells them. Determining if a relationship based on these circumstances will last can be a daunting problem. An individual asks themselves; will my boyfriend, girlfriend or fiancée stay true? Have they lied? What kind of history do they have?

Regardless of how you meet your potential mate there may be times in your relationship where something happens that lead you to believe your partner is being less than honest. Maybe it is about finances or another relationship or maybe it is nothing at all but the nagging feelings persist. Those feelings can themselves damage an otherwise healthy relationship and confronting your partner about these possibilities is difficult and can turn your partner away. Teetering on the line between trust and mistrust is arduous and can present serious problems to a relationship. These feelings in all probability will not be resolved by a passive conversation. Here at Beau Dietl & Associates we have helped thousands of people in this very situation. In some instances their concerns are unjustified but all too often there is something that is uncovered that justifies their fears. Some things to watch for in a relationship that might lead you to suspect infidelity include; unexplained extra hours at work, does your partner keep their cell phone close to them at all times, do they frequently leave the room when answering a call or avoid taking calls when you are present? In our business we see these things all to often unfortunately people come to us after they have made all the wrong choices and still have not satisfied this nagging feeling.

Utilizing the services of a licensed private investigator that specializes in unmasking the truth and to help find the answers you seek could ease your suspicions. A benefit in using an investigator is that you will get the truth without the pain and confusion of putting your partner or yourself through an emotionally draining ordeal. Should the truth be as dark as you might have assumed, a licensed private investigator can provide strong evidence in your favor giving you the information you need to make a well informed decision about your relationship. If you or someone you know is struggling with relationship anxiety and are looking for answers we can help. We offer free in office or over the telephone consultations to help get you to the truth. Our services include surveillance, background and criminal records checks. An investigator from BDA will act within the strictest compliance of the law in obtaining the information you need. Everything is held in the strictest security and confidence.

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